Dan Jiao felt very wronged about this matter. It all started when Xiaomin took her crayon. When she refused to give it, Xiaomin directly pushed her to the ground. It had already been three days, and Dan Jiao still felt pain in her bottom!
Thinking of this, Dan Jiao’s small hand unconsciously touched the sore spot. She felt both upset and wronged.
The little one looked at Du Chun with hope in her eyes. She desperately wished that her father would help her seek justice. She hoped that Dad would teach Xiaomin a lesson.
Once Xiaomin was dealt with, she would never bully her again. But the next developments disappointed Dan Jiao!
Everything happened because when Du Chun heard about the incident, he immediately waved his hand and said, “I’ve already heard about this from Dan Jiao!”
“Actually, it’s very normal for kids to play and mess around!”
“Bumps and tumbles are inevitable…”
“Thank you for your concern, Teacher Zhang!”
When Du Chun said this, he even glanced at Dan Jiao.
“I’ve already scolded Dan Jiao about this!”
“She must have provoked others first.”
“Otherwise, why would only she get pushed?”
“It’s definitely because our child is naughty and caused trouble!”
Du Chun said this while glaring sternly at Dan Jiao. He thought the little one was very troublesome!
He had reminded her every day to get along with her classmates, but she hadn’t taken it seriously. It was really disappointing!
The reproach in Du Chun’s eyes was so obvious. Dan Jiao’s round eyes were filled with disbelief. Her heart was full of grievance and sadness.
How could Dad not understand the whole story?
Why was he putting all the blame on her?
It wasn’t her fault at all!
Why would Dad do this?
Dan Jiao’s eyes were filled with tears.
She plaintively complained, “Dad, that’s not how it happened.”
“It was Xiaomin who took my crayon…”
But before she could finish speaking, Du Chun interrupted her.
“Shut up!”
“Adults are talking, children shouldn’t interrupt.”
“Have you forgotten what I taught you?”
Dan Jiao was startled by her dad’s loud scolding. She stared blankly at Du Chun.
For a moment, all her grievances were trapped in her heart, and she didn’t know how to speak. Her reaction made Du Chun think she was guilty.
He became even angrier.
Frowning deeply, he scolded,
“Dan Jiao, what have I taught you?”
“You need to get along, be tolerant, and care about your classmates…”
“Don’t be petty over little things!”
“Be more generous!”
“Look for your own faults more often!”
“Don’t always blame others.”
“Only then will other kids want to play with you…”
Dan Jiao’s tears fell in large drops from her eyes. She felt wronged, but could only nod!
She knew that if she didn’t nod, her dad would have a whole lot more to say.
And it would be endless!
Seeing Dan Jiao’s obedient attitude, Du Chun was pleased.
“Correcting yourself when you’re wrong, that’s what a good child does!”
“Now go inside with Teacher Zhang, and don’t forget to study hard!”
“And no more bullying other kids!”
Dan Jiao nodded pitifully, took Teacher Zhang’s hand, and slowly walked into the kindergarten.
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In the broadcasting hall!
When Teacher He saw the scene in the live broadcast, he instinctively glanced at Wang Bingbing. He noticed that she was frowning slightly. Immediately, he understood.
Teacher He clearly understood in her heart. She could tell that Wang Bingbing was dissatisfied with Du Chun’s way of handling the situation. At that moment, the educational expert nodded frequently, showing a satisfied expression, and loudly praised Wang Can.
“Du Chun’s approach is very appropriate,” the expert said.
“Children playing and roughhousing is completely normal.”
“Through such play, children’s relationships will deepen over time!”
“Not making a big deal out of it is the right approach.”
“Otherwise, other children might end up isolating Dan Jiao because of this incident.”
Zhang Taiti also interjected.
“Yes! Some parents nowadays have such bad tempers!”
“If their child suffers even a little grievance, they immediately go after the school or the teacher!”
“Really annoying!”
“Some parents go even further.”
“They film videos and post them online, starting public controversies.”
The educational expert deeply agreed, frowning as they lectured.
“Children raised by such parents will certainly become uncontrollable.”
“They’ll be impossible to discipline!”
Zhang Taiti couldn’t help but roll her eyes, striking a pose.
After clicking her tongue, she continued, “Once things get blown out of proportion…”
“The child who bullied yours will feel embarrassed, and might even face online bullying…”
“This is practically school violence!”
“If it causes psychological harm, that would truly be sinful!”
In this way, the educational expert and Zhang Taiti went back and forth, elevating the issue to an indescribable level!
Both provided sharp commentary on the incident. In unison, they voiced their opinions. The educational expert nodded continuously, strongly agreeing with what Zhang Taiti had said.
“Everything should be thought through carefully, and we must consider things from others’ perspectives.”
“Don’t immediately call parents.”
“What was originally just children playing ended up making everyone look bad!”
In the educational expert’s view, how could children not roughhouse?
One moment, they might be fighting, and the next moment they’ve made up!
If adults intervene, it could harm the children psychologically. What was a minor issue becomes an unsolvable problem.
It’s like letting someone hit you once, and you choose to forgive. They hit you twice, and you still choose to forgive. By the third time, they’ll feel embarrassed to do it again!
The educational expert went on about their educational philosophy.
“Nowadays, parents have too much bitterness!”
“Some parents, over the smallest things, escalate everything.”
“They hassle the kids, the school, the teachers, and even the education bureau!”
“These kinds of people are really annoying…”
“They act as if the whole world revolves around them!”
The educational expert even sneered, showing a clear disdain for discussing it further.
Zhang Taiti, seeing this, couldn’t help but agree.
“Yes, I also think it’s unnecessary!”
“Think about our childhood—wasn’t it all about playing and roughhousing?”
“Today’s parents are too sensitive!”
“They act like their own child is so precious!”
“And that other children are just weeds that can be trampled on.”
Hearing Zhang Taiti’s words, the educational expert’s eyes lit up, as if they’d found a kindred spirit.
They nodded in agreement, saying, “How much pain can a few hits from a child cause?”
“One slap can’t make a sound!”
“You have to reflect on things more.”
“Isn’t it your own fault?”
“Stop always blaming others!”
The educational experts were largely in agreement with Du Chun’s approach. When it came to children’s issues, they should handle them on their own.
Parents shouldn’t get too involved, lest they harm the children’s delicate psyches. It was also possible that some kids might think they have someone to back them up.
Whenever there was a quarrel, they called on their parents for support!
Isn’t that just playing around?
Du Chun’s way of handling the situation perfectly illustrated the idea that children should resolve their own issues. It showed great consideration for others!
And children raised this way would have a greater ability to empathize and be tolerant towards others!
This is a wonderful habit!
Whether in school or in society, it’s useful…
And it’s also a guiding principle for many people in life!
In the broadcast hall, the expert’s words became louder and more passionate, growing more animated as they spoke.
Zhang Taiti occasionally chimed in, which greatly boosted the educational expert’s confidence, and they became more and more verbose.
Yang Mi, upon hearing their views, couldn’t help but frown. But, seeing so many cameras, she knew that despite having countless disagreements in her mind, she couldn’t show them on her face.
At this moment, if she voiced an opposing opinion, she would surely be besieged by these educational experts. It would be completely not worth the trouble!
Yang Mi’s mind quickly turned, and she observed Teacher He and Wang Bingbing without revealing her thoughts. Teacher He slightly lowered his head, making it hard to see his expression. Wang Bingbing’s face had a faint layer of frost. Yang Mi immediately knew what was going on.